SwingLifestyle review
SwingLifestyle offers adult profiles and event listings. Its terms make messaging a deciding factor when choosing between a free account and a paid membership.
Reading a profile and messaging are separate
Free members can have a profile, but the terms say they cannot read the full text of received messages or contact other members. The terms also describe a paid Unlimited membership with no renewal obligation. 3Fun lets two people who have matched message each other for free. On SwingLifestyle, I’d check whether the membership I was considering included full messages.

What registration and reporting involve
The terms say the operator checks a government-issued ID for age and identity as part of registration. The privacy policy describes profile visibility controls. The support page lists complaint contacts and links to a separate takedown form.
Anabel’s take
I’d start with the event listings. Before setting up a profile, I’d decide which photos could be public and which I’d keep private.