Fetish.com review
Fetish.com combines member profiles and discussion spaces. The public site advertises free chat, while its help center lists private profile browsing as a paid feature.
Paying changes profile visibility
Premium and VIP members can browse profiles privately, according to the help center. The renewal page says memberships continue automatically unless canceled in advance. The cancellation guide points to My Membership and says paid features stay available until the current period ends. 3Fun also has a paid visibility setting, but directs mobile subscribers to the store where they bought the plan to stop renewal.
Verification and reporting are separate controls
The verification guide asks for a clear photo and says both people must appear for a couple’s profile. It says the verification photo stays private. The reporting guide says support may review the message history between the person making a report and the person reported. The help center also explains how to manage the blocked list.

Anabel’s take
I’d start with the forum and free chat. Private profile browsing would be the first reason I’d look at a paid plan.