Chatzy review
Chatzy is a general-purpose chat service for people who already know whom they want to invite. Quick Chat gets a conversation started. A Virtual Room gives you more control over who can join.
Pick the room before you send the link
Quick Chat puts the subject and invitation on one form. The FAQ says a Virtual Room adds options such as a room password, access by email address and an editable welcome message. I’d use that setup for a group that plans to meet more than once. Fetish.com makes more sense when I’m still looking for people through events or community groups.
Check who can enter and manage the room
The FAQ says a room can stay open while its creator is away. The terms describe rooms as private and say moderators do not routinely monitor conversations. Access still depends on the settings you choose and who has the invitation. Chatzy sells separate upgrades for a room and for an individual user, so check which one covers the option you need.
Anabel’s take
For a one-off chat, I’d use Quick Chat. For a group that meets regularly, I’d agree on who can send invitations and set those permissions in a Virtual Room before the first meeting.