Kasidie review
Kasidie gives singles and couples in the ethical non-monogamy community several ways to meet. I'd start with its local groups if I wanted to talk with people in my area, or its event directory if I already had a night in mind.
Look for the kind of gathering you want
The public tour separates club events from local, national and international parties. Its FAQ explains the difference between a club gathering and a smaller house party. I'd choose the setting I felt comfortable with before looking at a date. SDC is another way to browse if I'm deciding between a local party and a trip built around an event.
Read the profile badge separately
Kasidie describes certification as a badge for a profile. Its guide lists different routes, including verification by a certified member or club owner who has met the person. I'd still read the organizer's event description and check whom the invitation is for before making plans.
Anabel’s take
I'd look at one local group and one event listing before deciding how to introduce myself. If the group gave me a better feel for how people meet there, I'd start with a conversation.